Mare's Nest: The A in A-List is for Attention (Where's the W for Whore?)

The A in A-List is for Attention (Where's the W for Whore?)

There are many reasons why we should stay true to who we are. But importantly, I can’t think of any reason not to.

Some may not like what they see when you show them everything. They may walk away and never come back. That’s ok. Let them. From their shadows many more will walk into the light. Those are the people you want around anyways.

-- from Write to Done's Flipside to Authenticity: What you stand to gain from sharing your dirty laundry.

That's from something about how, if you're going to blog on any subject, you should basically tell your audience everything about you including (apparently) your bedroom habits.

Do you immediately see, as I do, the flaw in the above advice?

I DO NOT FUCKING WANT EVERYONE ON THE INTERNET 'AROUND ME'. I JUST WANT WRITE SOME STUFF DOWN.

I have been to 4chan. I have seen the masked but ugly legion of faces that are Anonymous. I do not want them in my bedroom.

The thing to do with dirty laundry is to wash it yourself, and only a *man* could think otherwise.

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The first form was to find a mare’s nest, to imagine that one has found something wonderful that turns out not to be real. It’s first recorded in a play in 1576. A typical usage is in Erskine Childers’ The Riddle of the Sands of 1903: “To accept the suggestion we must declare the whole quest a mare’s nest from beginning to end; the attempt on Davies a delusion of his own fancy, the whole structure we had built on it, baseless.”

It’s one variation on a set of phrases that were around centuries ago. Another version was horse’s nest, which was at one time also a dialect term for an idle tale or an oft-told story, one therefore over-elaborated and unbelievable. Other variations that have been recorded include salmon’s nest, and skate’s nest. For some reason, mare’s nest conquered the opposition and became standard. There’s a lovely enlargement of it in the 1811 edition of Captain Grose’s Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue: “He has found a mare’s nest, and is laughing at the eggs; said of one who laughs without any apparent cause.”

The modern sense wasn’t recorded in the First Edition of the Oxford English Dictionary, the entry for which was compiled in 1904, suggesting that it was then uncommon. The untidiness sense began to appear regularly in print only in the 1930s but was common by the 1940s. How the one sense changed into the other isn’t altogether obvious. A progression through illusion to misconception to confusion to muddle to extreme untidiness seems to have occurred. It may be that it was influenced by rat’s nest, a byword for untidiness that’s older than the modern sense of mare’s nest.